The Seventh of October

Jason and I were married 10 years ago on this day!

What I remember most about our wedding was being ridiculously happy and sharing that over-the-top level of joy with our friends and family. Our wedding day was euphoric – not because of the swell location and good food or the nifty handmade goodies or the pretty dress – it was because there was a foundation of love and a circle of people around us who were genuinely happy to share in our joy.

Today I want to thank our friends and family for supporting us, lifting us up, providing sage counsel, safe refuges, and the occasional butt-kicking when we’ve needed it. For the unconditional love, for honoring us as individuals, for sharing in our triumphs and celebrating our union, I am forever and deeply thankful.

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned in these 10 years is that marriage doesn’t just bond two people together, it brings whole communities together. That’s rather profound, isn’t it? I don’t think that’s talked about enough in our society, especially in terms of marriage equality and “family values” debates.

Jason and I have been strengthened by you, our community of friends, family, and acquaintances. We thank you with the utmost sincerity for your continued support, friendship, and guidance.