DIY Bride member, imastep, has a question I’m hoping you etiquette-savvy readers can help out with:

I am looking for suggestions on how to word the invitations for my step-daughter’s wedding. Her father and I have paid for the engagement party, and are paying for the wedding ceremony, wedding reception, breakfast for out of town guests the morning of the wedding (and nearly all the guests are from the brides mother’s family), etc. Her mother is paying for her dress (they remain close), the grooms family is paying for the rehearsal dinner. My husband and I do want to include her mother’s name on the invitation (as well as the groom’s parents, e.g. son of…). But, at the same time, we do want it to be clear that my husband and I are the hosts of the party. None of the books seem to cover this situation…any suggestions?

Posted in Planning Advice at August 25th, 2008. 7 Comments.

As announced last week, I amended the iPod contest to make it more fair to all who entered.

Using Random.Org to pick random comment numbers, here are the 3 winners:

Pick #1, commenter #17, is The iPod Winner: Amanda (there’s more than 1 Amanda… check your comment number.)

Pick #2, commenter #47, wins a $25 iTunes gift certificate: Emily McGinley

Pick #3, commenter #6, wins a copy of The DIY Bride book: Laura

Congrats! Winners will be notified by email today with details on how to collect their prizes.

Thank you to everyone who entered!

Posted in DIYBride News at August 18th, 2008. 1 Comment.

Thank you to everyone who entered the Win an iPod Nano contest! The entries are all so great which puts me in kind of a bind. The contest rules stated I’d pick 10 of my favorite entries and let the community vote for their favorite. As I think about it, that’s really kind of lame. First, there’s NO WAY I can narrow down the entries to 10. Second, it’s not very fair to judge based soley on my musical tastes. (Granted, I have pretty vast and eclectic music preferences. Still…)

So, here’s what I’m going to do to make the contest fair to everyone who took the time to enter:

  • On Monday, 8/18, I will randomly select 3 eligiable entries.
  • The first pick will win the iPod.
  • The second will win a $25 iTunes gift certificate.
  • The third will win a copy of The DIY Bride book.

Since the rules have changed, I’m giving all entrants an opportunity to remove themselves from the contest if they no longer wish to take part. If that’s you, please shoot me an email before Monday and I’ll delete your entry.

Posted in DIYBride News at August 14th, 2008. 1 Comment.

Hi everyone,

The forums and downloads areas are currently undergoing major reconstruction. The estimated date for relaunch is Wednesday morning. I do apologize for the inconvenience and appreciate your patience.

Posted in DIYBride News at August 11th, 2008. No Comments.

Fab Finds Friday is a weekly showcase of some of the fabulous resources available to the wedding community. This week’s wedding goodness is for our Vancouver, BC-area readers. (Vancouver is one of my favorite cities in the whole world, by the way.)

Are you decorating-challenged but want to decorate your (or someone else’s) wedding? You’re in luck, my Vancouver friends. The Wedding Decorators are offering how-to instruction beginning in November. Courses will include:

  • Decorate a head table
  • Cake table decor
  • Backdrops
  • Bouquets, bouts, and other florals


Posted in Fab Finds Friday at August 1st, 2008. 1 Comment.

I’m very proud to be featured once again in Modern Bride magazine. Please check out the August/September 08 issue on page 178 for the complete instructions to make your own fresh flower ring pillow. This was one of my favorite projects in the whole DIY Bride book.


Posted in DIYBride News at July 30th, 2008. 7 Comments.

Today’s guest post comes from DIY Bride Kristen who made 175 invitations for $102. Inspiring!

How I Only Spent $100 On My Wedding Invitations
…and 8 Tips On How You Can Do It Too

Most brides have a similar focus when they finally get their hands on that first bridal magazine, or when they sit down in front of Google for that very first wedding-related search. That magical gown, the wedding dress.

For us craftier brides-to-be, the focus is a bit different. We dream of invitations, programs and stationery. Vellum and engraved and metallic and handmade and letterpress. Wedding invitations are little paper masterpieces, and for brides like myself, they set the tone for the wedding much more than the gown does.

Pretty paper is by no means cheap, though. And when you are on a tight budget, or you have a hefty guest list, wedding invitations can quickly become one of your most expensive items.

My Vision

I knew I wanted an invitation that was something extra special. But, I also knew that I, as well as my parents, could not handle the extra special price tag that went with it. So, DIY wedding invitations it was.

The inspiration for the basic shell of my invite came from one of Khris’ features in DIY Bride. The rest came from flying by the seat of my pants. I learned some great lessons and gained some truly invaluable tips along the way that I believe every bride can use in some aspect of her planning.

**Quick Disclaimer: I am in no way, shape or form promoting the DIY-invitation route as an EASY one. It takes time, work and lots of patience to create your invitations from scratch. You have to decide for yourself if the cost benefit is worth taking on such a large task. For me, it absolutely was.

1. Research, Research, Research

If you decide to do your own invitations, you need to start EARLY. I don’t mean start making them early, but start thinking about them as soon as you can. Search the internet, visit local stationery stores, order samples. You may already have a vision in your head, but seeing that vision in a tangible form may change your feelings.

I sat for hours in different stores around town, going through their books of invitations, making mental notes of what I liked, and what I couldn’t believe some people paid to have done to paper (Eek!). Oh, and don’t let the sales clerks pressure you. You don’t have to tell them you have no intention of buying anything, just say you are only looking today. If they still won’t back off, just leave. Most stores have all the same books anyway.

2. For Materials, Think Outside the Box…Waaaay Outside the Box

Now, I am just as partial to craft and hobby stores as any other DIYer, but when it comes to crafting a wedding invitation, using products from these kinds of stores will cost you - significantly. Get creative with your resources. Just because it doesn’t come pre-packaged and labeled as a craft item, doesn’t mean you can’t make it one.

Exhibit A: the pocket folder or “shell” of my invite. Oh, how I love Office Depot. These homemade folders are each made from a cardstock report cover from the office supply store. These navy papers have a beautiful linen finish to them, and are really easy to work with in terms of scoring and cutting, so that is an added bonus. The best part: $12.99 for a pack of 50.

3. Simplistic Designs are Often The Most Beautiful

When it came time for me to create the printed pieces of my invitation, I decided I wanted something to build around. If you are not experienced in design, this is a great tip to remember. Think about taking an element or a logo and adding to it, so that your entire invitation works as one unified piece.

I created a logo of sorts with mine and my groom’s initials. It took no more than 10 minutes to create in Photoshop, but it added so much elegance right from the start.

4. Get Back to The Basics

I don’t want to be misleading with my opinion on this one, because oh my, what I wouldn’t give for some yummy letterpress invites to send out for my wedding. However, if you can’t break the bank for letterpress, you can use what you’ve probably already got: a basic inkjet printer.

As for what to print your elegant designs on, you can get back to the VERY basics: construction paper. Yes, you read correctly. Do me a favor if you think I’m crazy. Just go buy a pack. Open it, and really look at the pieces of paper. Construction paper has that beautiful handmade texture, with all those little imperfections that give it character and, believe it or not, style.

My light pink construction paper ran through my HP all-in-one printer like a charm. Especially charming is the fact that it’s only 97 cents for a pack of 50 sheets.

5. Don’t Waste Your Scraps

If you are going to be crafty, you also have to be thrifty. In order to save yourself multiple trips to reload on supplies, try and find a use for your scraps.

With my Office Depot covers, I had a rectangular scrap that was cut off each one of them. I recycled all of those scraps and turned each one into a matte for the reception information card.

6. Shop Around for the Items You Can’t Make

I spent weeks looking around for envelopes because I wanted to make sure I found the best deal. And, boy did I ever. I must give a little shout-out love to Cutcardstock.com, for not only the most incredible deals, but incredible service as well. I got 250 white 6″ square envelopes for $26.00 plus S+H. Just incredible.

7. Don’t forget the “Yourself” in Do-It-Yourself

This is your project - a way to really put your own unique touch into your wedding. DO NOT FORGET THAT. Undoubtedly, you will hit a few bumps in the roads when you take on a project of this magnitude (I had 150 invitations brought back to my front door last Friday for not having enough postage - don’t get me started).

Just keep things in perspective, and don’t beat yourself up. Brides have so much stress and pressure put on them, and they put the majority of it there themselves. Take this project on as a way to relieve some of the other wedding planning stress you’ve already got  on your mind. You’d be amazed at how therapeutic cutting, folding and gluing can be for you.

Submitted by Kristen Phillips.

Images and text copyright Kristen Phillips 2008.

Posted in Invites + Stationery at July 28th, 2008. 16 Comments.

Hey DIYers,

I need some help! Due to a difficult first trimester and the stress of writing a new book, I’m in a whole world of overwhelm right now.

I’d love to bring on some guest bloggers over the next few months to fill in for me when I need to be away. This is a great opportunity to get in touch with the DIY community, share ideas & resources, and have some fun.

If you’re interested, please contact me and I’ll send you more details.

Thanks!

Posted in Opportunties at July 25th, 2008. No Comments.

It’s been a long time since I’ve done a Fab Finds Friday. Yikes!

Today’s featured find is actually a swell contest from uber cool Bliss Weddings in Southeast Michigan. I know we have a fair amount of Michigander readers so I’m delighted to pass along Amanda’s contest for a free Day-Of Coordination package, worth $500.

The contest details and rules can be found here and do check out the great Bliss Weddings Blog.

Posted in Fab Finds Friday at July 25th, 2008. 1 Comment.

iPod Nano Giveaway at DIYBride

It’s not much of a stretch to say that the iPod has changed my life. I got my first about a year and a half ago as a birthday present from Mr. DIY. I wasn’t sure I really wanted it but after only a week, I couldn’t imagine life without it. It’s just that cool.

And now I want you to experience the coolitude that is the iPod. I’m giving away a 4 GB silver iPod Nano as part of Multimedia Month. For those of you looking to have an iPod wedding, this baby’ll rock your world!

Of course you’ll have to work for this one, my friends. This particular contest requires some creativity and action on your part.

How to enter:
To enter leave a comment (text or video) to this post with a list of your Top 10 “Get Off Your Butt and Dance!” Songs.  In other words, what songs would make your guests boogie oogie oogie on the dance floor? Your comment submission will automatically enter you in the contest.

Your entry must include:

  1. Your top 10 dance songs with exact song name and artist
  2. Your wedding date

Incomplete entries will not be eligible the contest.

Deadline:
I will accept entries from July 18 through July 31. On August 01, I will pick my Top 10 favorite entries and will then let you, my dear readers, vote for the winner. The final winner will be chosen on August 15th.

See contest details after the jump.

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Posted in DIY Multimedia Weddings at July 18th, 2008. 48 Comments.