Archive for October, 2009

Oct 21 2009

Real Problems: Vendor (Dis)Honesty

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Real Problems is a spin-off from our Real Etiquette feature where we discuss real-life problems couples are facing as they plan their weddings. This is our first post in the series.

Dear DIY Bride,

My fiance and I recently met with a baker that we saw at a bridal fair. Her booth was busy on the day we went but we got a small sample of her cake and picked up a brochure that had some beautiful designs done by her company. Fast forward to a last weekend. We met with the cake lady in person. She was friendly and said that she could do all of the things we wanted for our cake. She had some good ideas and was enthusiastic about working with us. Then she handed us a scrapbook of her work.

Most of the cakes were pretty basic. Nothing wrong with that but I wasn’t seeing anything like what we were asking for. What bothers me most is there were a few cakes I recognized from some websites and magazines. I think she just copied and printed on photo paper to make it look like they were real shots of her work. (The reason I recognized one of those cakes is that I tore out the exact page from a magazine for my inspiration board.) To my fiances horror, I called her on it. The cake lady claimed that the magazine copied it from her and that she’s using their shot because it’s better than the one she had. It kinda sounds plausible. What do you think?

Trust your Spidey (bridey?) senses here. If you have reservations about the authenticity of a vendor’s claims, it’s probably best to move on. My understanding of your situation is the cake designer is using photographs of cakes that are not hers and is trying to pass them off as her creations. Yeah, that’s a big red flag.

Also, her portfolio isn’t reflecting the kind of work that you’re wanting. Not all cake designers can do every kind of cake. If she’s promising things outside of her normal skill set, you may want to reconsider. Do you want to be her cake test dummy? Finding out on the day of your wedding that she’s no good at intricate lacework (or whatever it is you’re seeking) is not a good idea.

Still confused? Hop on Google, Yelp and WeddingWire and do a search for your cake lady. It’s pretty easy to find reviews and background info on vendors. If you can’t find any info on her — and if she’s claiming to have done a significant amount of cakes or has been in business for more than a year — please be suspicious and act accordingly. You can also ask for a small sample cake of your design. It’ll cost you some cash but at least you’ll know what you’re in for.

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Oct 14 2009

Recycled Crafts Week: Call For Submissions

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Hey DIYers,

I’ll be dedicating an entire week to wedding crafts that are made with recycled materials. This is something near and dear to my heart because I’m a packrat thrifty recycler who adores rescuing and repurposing items.

I – and the entire DIY community – would love it if you shared your recylced projects with us for the showcase. Just send us your project details + pictures using the form below by October 23rd. (You can send project anytime, by the way! We love showing off the work of our talented readers.)

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Oct 13 2009

DIY Bride Wants To Know: What Are Your Favors?

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Dear Readers, please satisfy our curiosity about your weddings. What are you giving as your favors?

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Oct 10 2009

The Brilliance of Pie in a Jar

Published by DIYBride under DIY Projects & Tutorials

One of the most popular posts here was the cupcake in a jar project. Sadly it’s now gone (Don’t fret! It’s making an appearance in the upcoming Crafty Countdown book) from the site. I was really excited to see a variation on the “jar” concept with Our Best Bite’s tutorial for a pie in a jar. Pie, people! Loooove this idea. I’ve done bread in a jar but never got as far as pie because my brain juice ran out or something.

Pie in a Jar from Our Best Bites

Pie in a Jar from Our Best Bites

Check out their tutorial here.

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Oct 09 2009

Fab Finds Friday: Garter Girl

Published by DIYBride under DIY Projects & Tutorials

Fab Finds Friday is a weekly showcase of some of the fabulous resources available to the wedding community. This week’s wedding goodness comes to you from Garter Girl. Products and resources mentioned in FFF are chosen based on their merit and are never paid endorsements. xoxo.

Juilanne from Garter Girl posted this great tutorial for creating a knit garter for under a dollar. Yes, under a buck!

Knit garter from Julianne, The Garter Girl

Knit garter from Julianne, The Garter Girl

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Oct 07 2009

Happy Anniversary To Me

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Today is my 9th wedding anniversary! I’m off for a couple of days to celebrate. Have a great week, everyone!

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Oct 02 2009

Scheduled Down Time

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Hey, hey!

DIY Bride will be offline over the weekend beginning Friday afternoon while I complete some upgrades. Thanks for your patience and see you on Monday.

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