Comments on: Fears. What're Yours?

By: Amanda

Amanda — Sun, 23 Aug 2009 01:12:15 +0000

I’m afriad that my arms will look fat and I will be ugly in all the pictures (I have a strapless dress) and that it will look cheap instead of simple and elegant.

By: bstohler

bstohler — Mon, 23 Feb 2009 16:37:01 +0000

I understand how you feel (philosophica).I have expensive taste and I can’t help what I like. I don’t want to spend money on it if I don’t like it. I did not settle when it came to picking the man I was going to spend the rest of my life with and I don’t want to settle now. It’s all or nothing. We do not have a house yet, and are still renting. I can’t stand the idea of spending all this money on one day. Will I have a good time if we spend it all? Yes. Will I be happy when its over and we’re broke? NO!!!! I will be just as happy with a very small (cash saving) wedding. and even happier after the wedding knowing we are so very close to having a down payment for a home.

By: Philosophica

Philosophica — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 20:43:10 +0000

I’m afraid that I’ll completely regret my wedding day (not getting married) because I wont have things the way I’d like them due to money constraints. I’m kind of an all or nothing type person when it comes to things like this and I’m not exactly ok with spending thousands of dollars on stuff I’m not really gonna like. Then again, I’m not ok with dragging my future husband into debt over a party. Oh the conundrum!

By: Brandi

Brandi — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 21:27:51 +0000

I’m afraid of this economy, but at the same time it has given me opportunities to think outside the box. I am thankful our wedding is not until October, which gives me enough time to be frugal.

By: Barret

Barret — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 02:10:51 +0000

Because of the times we are having a small family wedding. my biggest fear is that i will regret not going all out and having ALL the people i love there to witness this and to dance and laugh and drink and cry with…it was a really hard decision. that and the fact that i might let loose and fly off the handle at my mother in law to be and cause permanent damage to our relationship – she is driving me friggin NUTS.

By: Cat

Cat — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 05:02:37 +0000

I’m afraid my mother will make a huge scene… My mother is a huge drama queen (I mean… Really really bad. She and I don’t have a good relationship and I don’t want her to come to the wedding AT ALL, but my dad and my fiance both tell me that if I don’t invite her I’ll regret it). I’m afraid she and her jerk boyfriend will make a big scene and she’ll start crying and talking about what an awful person I am and I’m going to have to throw her out, which will be even worse because I’m having a destination wedding.

By: MarchBride

MarchBride — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 06:16:56 +0000

I’m afraid I’ll call my fiance by my ex’s name in front of lots of people. I haven’t slipped yet, but it could happen…

By: Nicole

Nicole — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 04:50:13 +0000

My fear is that it will rain on my wedding day (It’s in May so I’m a little scared) and that I wont pay for everything in time!

By: ALieb

ALieb — Fri, 16 Jan 2009 18:57:04 +0000

I am afraid it won’t all come together!! The list of things to do keeps getting longer and I have my trust in so many people. I hope no one flakes and nothing falls through the cracks.

By: syd

syd — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 04:46:59 +0000

That everyone will show up and we won’t have enough space or food. OR that no one will show up and the whole thing will flop and we’ll have all this extra food.